Holiday shopping,

A woman is paying for some purchases at Macy’s. 

As she reaches for her card, a TV remote control falls out of her purse. 

The sales clerk asks, “Do you always carry your TV remote?”

“No.” the woman says, “But my husband refused to come shopping with me today.  I figured this was a great way to pay him back.”                                                     


Emotional Eating

When weight loss professionals discuss emotional eating, You’re doing OK, cruising along, when suddenly something happens that stirs up a bunch of feelings, and all of a sudden the Beast is awake and eating everything it can get its hands on. Or maybe it isn’t always that dramatic—maybe you just get bored, or start feeling a little anxious because there is nothing going on to distract you. it might be as simple as getting home from work or school, or finding yourself alone for a little while, after a hard day.
There are two basic and complimentary approaches you can use to tame the Beast before it trashes your food plan, and you’ll need both for long-term success. The difference between them is the same as the difference between emergency medicine and preventive medicine. The main focus here will be on coping with the immediate emergency.

When the Beast is Loose: Getting It Back in Its Cage

The bad news here is that will power has little effect on controlling emotional eating. From a psychological perspective, the shift into emotional eating mode is usually involves shifting into a different state of consciousness (or persona) with its own independent set of emotions and related thinking patterns. For a little while, you literally aren’t your normal self, and the normal tricks you use to manage your behavior and thinking may not work.

The good news is that your Emotional Eating Beast is a pretty dim-witted critter, and you can trick it into going back where it came from without too much effort, if you know how to do it. Here are some tricks that usually work:

  1. Play the Stalling Game. if you can manage to stall it for just a few minutes on its way to the kitchen,  So, instead of trying to fight it and tell it that it can’t have what it wants, just tell it to hang on for five minutes and wait until you’re done doing what you’re doing. If necessary, you can usually get away with stalling like this 2-3 times before things start to get ugly, and most of the time, that 10-15 minutes will be plenty long enough for your Beast to forget the whole business and go back to sleep.
  2. Play the Distraction/Substitution Game. If your Beast doesn’t fall for the Stalling Game, you can still use your superior mental capacities to keep the upper hand. The key here is to keep in mind that what your Beast really wants isn’t food, but emotional comfort.  If you can find ways to comfort yourself that don’t involve food, the need to eat will go away very quickly. Find something you enjoy doing that’s simple and easy to do right away. Listen to soothing or inspirational music, take a hot bath or a nice walk around the block, logon to SparkPeople, grab the phone and chat with a friend, or do some inspirational reading—you get the idea. Think of the Beast as a young child who just woke up from a nightmare, and of yourself as the parent looking for a way to help your child calm down and realize that it was all just a bad dream.
  3. Play the Good Beast/ Bad Beast Game. Even though the Beast may seem powerful and overwhelming, it is just as afraid of you as you are of it. It knows full well that you can and, someday, probably will just tell it to go take a hike, and that will be the end of the game. To postpone this unhappy day for as along as possible, the Beast is always willing to negotiate with you if you can muster up enough nerve to stare it in the eye and demand some sort of compromise you can live with. If you keep your kitchen stocked with healthy snacks that won’t kill your diet and your self-respect, and you let the Beast get its hands on them, then you can both stay relatively happy—until that day when you’re ready to finally toss the Beast out and change the locks.

Once you have the immediate situation under control, you can start working on ways to prevent this problem from happening in the first place, by learning how to handle stress and powerful feelings without relying on food. There are lots of articles in the Resource Center on stress management and handling negative thinking. In addition, you’ll find some helpful ideas in these articles:
1 Step Back, 2 Steps Forward What Is Normal Eating – Part 3 An Exercise

Gluten Free Shopping List


Gluten Free Shopping List

Produce such as fresh fruits and vegetables. Meat fish and poultry. Eggs. Beverages that are 100% fruit juice, coffee, tea,
soft drinks. Vegetable, canola and olive oil. Dairy such as unflavored milk, creme cheese, aged cheese, butter, margarine, cream cheese, cottage cheese, sour cream. Most frozen ice cream and sherbet. Snacks such as potato chips, corn chips, popcorn, rice crackers, nuts and seeds, jello. Canned Tuna, dried beans, lentils, peas and most canned baked beans. Cereals such as cream of rice, grits, puffed rice, plain brown or white rice, corn tacos. Condiments such as Jam and jellies, honey, peanut butter, corn or potato starch, sugar, spices and herbs,. Please read all ingredients despite the suggestions above of anything you purchase and ask questions if unsure of an ingredient.

Gluten-free grains and starches


Gluten-free grains and starches

The following are gluten free grains and starches: Amaranth, arrowroot, buckwheat, corn, flax, corn, flours made from seeds, millet, potato and potato starch or flour, quinoa, rice, rice bran, sago, sorghum, soy, tapioca,

Overlooked sources of Gluten


Overlooked sources of Gluten

beers and lagers, breading, coating mix, communion wafers, croutons, candy, luncheon meats, broth, pasta, sauces, soup base, stuffing, soy sauce, marinades, prescription medicine and supplements, over the counter medicine, lipstick, gloss and balms